What secrets would the blacklight reveal about you?
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babe are you okay you posted aurahack’s ‘what secrets would the blacklight reveal about you?’
Greaser seductively holding a knife to her gf’s neck scene. First tried to take this photo with a cellphone charm
redditors coming to tumblr is gonna create a spike in people figuring out they're trans that will rival even the first 6 months of quarantine
it's ok, boys. i was once as you are. let the questions bloom & the answers enfold you 🌸
PSA to newcomers! if you:
- constantly think about what it would be like to be another gender
- feel envy towards another gender (sometimes mixed up with attraction to that gender)
- believe anyone would choose to be that other gender if they could because it’s simply the better option
- feel like you lost a genetic coin flip at conception because you could have been another gender
- feel anguish and longing because you’re not “one of the girls”/“one of the boys” or because you’re excluded from gendered activities like girls’ nights
- have dismissed the idea of transitioning yourself because you wouldn’t be “real” enough, or because “real” trans people know for sure when they’re young
then uhhhhhh you might want to think about that a bit! if any of those things rang a bell, then DM me and we’ll chat about it 🩵🩷🤍 😘
And always remember -- you never need the "whole thing". Gender identity and expression are both vast spectrums.
It's way more useful, rather than trying to answer the big question of Am I Really A Girl (tm), to break it down into individual subunits:
- What aspects of my current body and/or gendered existence (social interaction, name, pronouns, terms of address, etc etc) am I unhappy with?
- What aspects am I neutral about, but could be better?
- What measures of transition exist to address those needs?
To use myself as an example: I genuinely hated the way that testosterone made me feel, emotionally and physically. Going on testosterone blockers was a way to solve that problem.
But I like my facial hair, especially after estrogen, so I kept it.
If you feel like aspects of being your assigned gender are painful to you, but you're not sure you're Really A Woman/Man (tm), figure out what'll make you happy and just do that. Take my hand, and join me in the big wide world of gender homebrewing.
as someone who cracked on egg_irl this is very funny to me
i mean to be fair same